Why is it that there are so many black boys and hardly any black men? So many real niggas instead of real men? Why do most black men think that paying their own bills, having their own makes them a man. It is his mindset, his essence, his approach, his views, how he handles situations when things get tough, logic, understanding, ability to control his tongue, urges, and emotions and actions when he is emotional. Why are so many of them so quick to go back on what they say just because they allowed their emotion to consume them. Accepting responsibility for his actions that were misguided and the problems they create. Why do they like to create problems but not solve them unless they involve violence or getting the better of someone, which solves nothing. Why does the number of women they get pregnant and disregard for all human life sign manhood or if they didn't mean to get the first one. That someone else's blood on your hands is worth praise? And a bullet wound taken for a gang or some unnecessary, childish beef over territory that belongs to the government anyway a badge of honor?
That you get merits for each one of YOUR BROTHERS that YOU kill. Why do they continue this genocidal behavior and then blame the government or the white man for still being the low man on the totem pole, when all they are doing is watching do the job for them. Why is it that when a black man aspires to go against the grain that keeps them oppressed his own brothers name call, sabotage and attempt to keep him down and turn towards the same destructive path that is keeping them in the same spot that they complain so much about but are unwilling to do what their brother is doing? Why when a black man strives for success in America he is a sell - out or an Uncle Tom? Why do you seem to despise your brother to the point where you want to destroy him? Is it because he is a reflection of self? Why is it that Why is it they lack respect for women, elders, children, everyone. Even themselves. I know that blacks were stolen and brought here. I understand that if you force anyone out of their comfort zone it will never be good for them. I realize that black men also used to be Kings and Queens. However, What are black men doing to reclaim their status? Whatever it is, it is killing you all quickly. Why does it seem that the black man is so blinded by anger from what has happened more so than what is happening?
Remember it's not the game, it's how you play it. And right now black men.... you're losing... I also understand that the game is set up to keep the black man losing and at best three steps behind. However, there is always a way. But most black men are going the wrong way. You do not beat the government with a gun, knife, or fist. All you need to arm yourself with is knowledge, a strong will books, and a pen and paper. Then you can beat them at their own game. I'm doing this because I am a woman who is on the outside looking in and realize that she may never fully understand the struggles of the black man, but would like to try and is willing to listen and try to help. I just want to know how a race that can be such a powerful force without using violence is so self-destructive.
I want to see the King reclaim his throne and rise to the top once more. Hopefully this will start something that makes more black men want the same. I realize that anything is easier said than done. But isn't the recreation of a race for the better worth it? Especially your own. It truly hurts me to see the genocide of a race due to foolish behavior. There are just too many intelligent and potentially powerful black men being slaughtered by their own brother, simply because they are a victim of the oppressors box. But who is the real oppressor? Because slavery never ended, it just expanded to include everyone except the one percent. So in my opinion, the oppressors box is in your mind. You just need to break out of it and discover your true potential. I'm not asking you to conform and or go fight wars, because these wars are not yours. Your war is with yourself. I am just asking to break the mental bondage that keeps you self-oppressed. It's not just the men it's the women as well for whom I'll have questions later. Ladies if you are reading this, some of this is your fault too but that's another article. I may be wrong about what I said but this is just what I see and would like to stop. I only want to help or at least open some eyes and minds. I am writing this for insight so comments, suggestions, and criticisms are welcome. I am open to any helpful suggestion. Thank you for reading. If you have any questions or anything to add you can also reach me by email. deejms28@gmail.com
